“Elephants never forget.” There might be some truth in that:
Their superb memories help elephants stay alive in ways that go beyond just recognizing threats. Matt Lewis, a Senior Program Officer with the World Wildlife Fund’s Species Conservation Program, tells mental_floss that one of the best examples of elephant cognition “comes from desert-adapted elephants, where the matriarchs remember where reliable water can be found and are able to guide their herds to water over very long distances, and over the span of many years. This is a pretty clear indication that elephants have a great ability to remember details about their spatial environment for a very long time.”
Humans have impressive memory as well. Just have a fight with your spouse, and marvel at your ability (and your spouse’s) to remember every bad thing (and many good things reinterpreted as bad) over decades of marriage. We use our memory to exalt the self rather than build the common good. We are like defective elephants.
Right now I’m attending a church with a mainly immigrant population. One of the groups there was asked to leave because they were getting into violent confrontations over issues in their homeland. Both factions remembered all the details of the division – interpreting them differently, of course – vividly enough to demonize the other group.
Now that they are gone, the remaining group (a different ethnicity) is encountering the same problem. My charismatic friends would suggest there is a malign spirit at work in the place.
Maybe so, but all that spirit would need to do is exploit our existing capacity to use our prodigious memories for evil. Although made in the image of God, we are fallen creatures, as much as much contemporary
thinking feeling would like to deny that.
We need to look to God, who has the ultimate memory but also a great capacity to forget.
God remembers with love:
Yet Jerusalem says, “The Lord has deserted us;
the Lord has forgotten us.”
“Never! Can a mother forget her nursing child?
Can she feel no love for the child she has borne?
But even if that were possible,
I would not forget you!
See, I have written your name on the palms of my hands.
Always in my mind is a picture of Jerusalem’s walls in ruins.
Soon your descendants will come back,
and all who are trying to destroy you will go away.
Look around you and see,
for all your children will come back to you.
As surely as I live,” says the Lord,
“they will be like jewels or bridal ornaments for you to display. (Isaiah 49:14-18, NLT)
And God is practiced at forgetting bad stuff,
For I will be merciful toward their iniquities, and I will remember their sins no more. (Hebrews 8:12, ESV)
Christ Jesus uses his cross as an eraser so that much is forgotten,
Blotting out the handwriting of ordinances that was against us, which was contrary to us, and took it out of the way, nailing it to his cross… (Colossians 2:14, KJV)
Let us pray that our memory be surrendered to the One who willingly forgets our sin and remembers us with loving favor.